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平常我就有在寫日記的習慣，已習慣寫下和伴侶相處的所有大小事物。往後也透過部落格文章來跟大家分享我如何跟另一伴相處？以及那些在關係裡我學習到的事情。關係感恩日記單元，會搭配我覺得很棒的語錄金句。如果任何一則關係感恩故事閱讀後有任何心得，歡迎你透過底下留言框，將心得分享給我；也可以將關係感恩日記頁面加入我的最愛，或者分享給你的伴侶 : )

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【結婚好不好？】結婚前，成熟伴侶會討論、規劃的9項人生議題

by SilviaUpdated on 2023 年 9 月 17 日2022 年 5 月 29 日

結婚好不好？在生育率低與高齡化越來越高的台灣，結婚 – 似乎是一件需要勇氣的事。結婚一詞對你而言有著什麼樣的意 …

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